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Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Droplets of empathy



The rain came today from what's left of Katrina. I drove thorugh some of it on my way to work. It was heavy, but sporadic.

It reminded me more of the tears of those affected as I listened to their stories on the radio. One woman was in her home as it was gutted around her. Her husband's journals were swept away... one entry from every day of his middle-aged life. How do you measure the loss of one's own heart and soul?

The rain today serves as a reminder that we are not so far apart. The same rain that touch me, touched those in Louisiana and Mississippi. That rain could have been recycled from any other flood or disaster before finding it's way into Katrina's clouds.

We are truly one in so many ways, from the things we're made of, to the experiences we share. I hope you too will join me in finding the best way to demonstrate to others: when they hurt, we hurt as well. When all of our droplets of donations collect, we can make an enormous pool of relief.

Monday, August 29, 2005

Basin-dwellers

I hate cats. Even more, I hate cats in sinks.

A Virgin Hurricane

40 Year Old Virgin

I saw The 40 Year Old Virgin last night, while hurricane Katrina was hitting Louisiana and Mississippi.

First off, the movie is fantastic. What I really loved about it was that each scene was believable. It lacked the Jim Carrey over-the-top comedy which is refreshing. There are only so many "Billy Madison"s and "Black Sheep" that need to be made.

It was surprising, and yet the situations were believable. Only a couple of scenes were near over-the-top status and one was the chest hair scene, which has a back story that is real: Steve Carell's chest hair was actually being removed in the scene. It reminded me a lot of A Mighty Wind without the commentary-style production.

So, there I was in the theatre, laughing my ass off, enjoying life, when I realized that a few of my good friends were fleeing their home near New Orleans, LA. Hurricane Katrina was bearing down on them and they were worried about whether or not their home (and all inside it) would still exist in 24 hours.

There are times in life that we are able to be completely carefree and others when we are entirely fearful. I think it's good that whenever we are in either position, we don't forget how easily we could be in the other.

Overheard in NYC

There are many great, fun sites out there on the web, but I think this is one of the first to which I can directly relate. Overheard in New York is the inevitable site which takes people watching to the eavesdropping/happenstance level.

We all know the stories that we've picked up along the way while simply being in the right place, within earshot of a conversation. Now there is a place where those stories live on the web.

I think it's an absolutely beautiful idea, and one of those sites that makes you say "Oh, that is what the Internet is for!"

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Life gets some motion

Sometimes life moves from zero to 60 pretty quickly.

With a new job (plus the old one) and now a new apartment, it has been a very busy time lately. But that's no reason that all the tangent readers out there (both of you) should go without some drawn out observations on life.

I've spent an immeasurable amount of time at IKEA lately, where I have found a new love for furniture and interior design and consumerism. It's interesting to me that I don't like the idea of Wal-Mart with it's low, low prices, but I do really enjoy IKEA and it's low prices (especially 50 cent hot dogs). I know that a big part of it is the fact that IKEA's designs are way smarter and I don't get the impression that they are unfair to their employees.

Right now a visiting Swede would find my home to be pretty homey.

I do have a bit of advice for people trying to move while working two jobs... rent a truck and pay someone else to do it. It's been pretty hard coming home late and trying to assemble furniture without disturbing my new neighbors. I haven't met them yet, but I have met the sound of their fists on our shared walls.

One thing I have come to despise in this process and in working in retail a bit, is the experience of shopping. People really change when they are shopping, and it usually has nothing to do with shopping. I think it has to do with being in the same space with other strangers.

I saw a woman accost her child the other day while getting lunch in the mall. I could hear her chastise the kid over the sound of my iPod (which I usually arm myself with to avoid such situations). It seemed like she was yelling louder just so that everyone else could hear how well she was dealing with her vagabond child, as if to say "See, I'm not one of those parents who doesn't parent." I wonder if she would do the same thing at home, away from everyone else.

Living in my new apartment, I have noted how well we shield ourselves from others and protect our space. Since moving in, almost a month ago, I have seen three different people living there (there are approx. 20 units in my building) and only one has bothered to say hello, followed quickly by "would you mind not putting your TV on the wall between our apartments?"

What happened to community? Why can't we know our neighbor? I think I am going to throw a a party for the building, just to see if anyone shows up. My instinct tells me that most of them would like to come, but I am not sure that they would.

:: Not a very focused set of observations, but then again, sometimes they all can't be.

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

As someone who loves to sleep, I thought this quote was appropriate.

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Only while sleeping do you make no mistakes. Mistakes are the privilege of the active person, who can start over and put things right.

:: Ingvar Kamprad, founder of IKEA ::

Monday, August 08, 2005

Getting the racism out of college sports

FINALLY! The NCAA has come around and is finally doing something about Native American mascots. When I heard the news on NPR I literally cheered in my car.

Starting in 2006, any university participating in NCAA collegiate sports will be unable to participate in post-season tournaments if their mascot is Native American in origin.

Native American mascots (Seminoles, Braves, Sioux, etc.) are not only stupid, but treat Native Americans like something less than human beings. A few years back I was at the One Club in New York and saw this student piece for the National Cngress of American Indians. It illustrates the problem perfectly.



Native Americans have always been one of the most oppressed groups of people in America, and the NCAA committee should be commended for finally coming up with, what will be, an effective response to the issue. Schools like Florida State covet their football and basketball team's post-season play and earnings. The board of trustees of these universities will have to respond with a mascot change or face mobs of angry fans, and more importantly to them... lost revenue.

It doesn't solve the problem completely. There still exists Native American nicknames in professional sports: the Atlanta Braves, the Cleveland Indians, the Washington Redskins, etc. Hopefully the move by the NCAA will prompt similar moves by MLB and the NFL.

Of course, there is going to be backlash about this move. People are entrenched in school's traditions, and most people simply don't like change. But this move, on the part of the NCAA, is not a move to change people's minds now. It's being done to change the opinions of future generations, so that they will not think (consciously or sub-consciously) that another human being could be belittled by using their heritage as a mascot.

Ray Ratto commented on the ban saying that it would lead to PETA seeking a ban on animal nicknames. What Ratto misses here is that Native Americans are human beings who deserve the right to be treated as all other human beings. When an animal approaches me to tell me how their pride has been hurt by using their likeness as a mascot - I will rescind my opinion.

Florida State has responded saying that they think that the NCAA committee is being insensitive to them! That's rich. Apparently the Seminole tribe has struck a deal "approving" of their name and likeness being used by the university. We know how things work in Florida, however. There has got to be a huge amount of money going to various Seminole interests from the university. This "relationship" is simply the university paying the tribe off.

Here's some more angry FSU fans. In my opinion, they should be more worried about keeping their players off drugs and out of jail. What kind of reputation does player's misbehavior give the Seminole nation? I wouldn't want my heritage associated with those meat heads.

The one thing that some dissenters have pointed out, that I can agree with, is that the NCAA ruling is not substantial enough, and the committee should regain control of their association by banning all mascots that are Native American.

March of the Penguins



If you think your life sucks, go see "March of the Penguins."

I was apprehensive about this film, because I thought it would play to the cutesie, girly "I want one! Awwww" mentality.

Instead, you witness the toughness of Antarctica's only permanent resident, the Emperor penguins. The story is narrated by Morgan Freeman, making it instantly great, but the truly unique thing is that this "documentary" is a story.

It is delivered in such a way that you come to know the penguins as characters and their real life struggles become the plot. It's incredibly smart in the way the visuals match the writing, and the editing decisions are superb.

You will gain a very strong respect for the ordeal of these penguins and by the end feel like your life is very doable when matched up with theirs.

Musings of the DMV

Is there any better cross-section of America than the DMV?

Long known as a haven for lunacy and frustration, a bastion for lines and forms, the Department of Motor Vehicles is also a wonderful place to witness the variety of America. It is one of the few places left where everyone, young and old, rich and poor, beautiful and ugly, come together to share in the agony of bureaucracy.

My most recent visit was to obtain a record of my driving history. I arrived at the DMV at 9 am on a Saturday. I expected that I was there at a busy time, but it was early for me, especially on a weekend.

The place was packed. People were everywhere and the parking lot was filled with vultures, waiting to do whatever it took to grab the next available parking spot.

I thought to myself, "If I wanted to take a broad survey, this is where I would go." Everyone is represented here. I love the fact that a woman from affluent Wilton woman has to stand next to a dirty construction worker from downtown Norwalk. The Spanish-speaking couple is asking the short Italian man for help. If America is a melting pot, this is where the mixing happens.

I was working with a time limit (something you can never do at the DMV) and was hoping that I would be lucky enough to get through in an hour. Well, after I got through the first line, I had the paperwork, and a complete understanding of what I needed to fulfill for my obligations. Then the ticket came.

It's a simple thing. A pinkish ticket with a three digit number. 995. Okay. Where's the board? Okay. We're on 945. I'm screwed.

After ten minutes, the numbers had inched to 952. I was out. There was no way this was going to happen.

As soon as I leave the front door I hear screaming. The parking lot was still buzzing with people, but one woman was particularly livid. "You hit my car!" she repeatedly screamed. Her target was a man in a long SUV. Her car was a smaller one. They didn't make it around each other apparently and her rear corner was showing the paint from his car.

People were offering condolences and trying to calm the woman. Others were like prairie dogs, peering over parked cars, hoping for a Springer moment.

Is there anything more ironic than getting in an accident in the parking lot of the DMV?

In a sadistic way, I love the DMV. It enforces reality in our lives. But at the same time, it's the bane of our existence. Somewhere there needs to be a valley for the mountain's peak to seem high.

Sunday, August 07, 2005

Whereas this is flippin' sweet



I have recently embraced the fact that I share a likeness to Napoleon Dynamite... an ill-fated, but optimistic character from the movie bearing his name.

Dee recently made me aware of the fact that there had been an actual bit of legislation in the state of Idaho, supporting the movie. I was extremely excited to read one of the funniest pieces of government writing ever. My favorite part is in Section 2, Line 2:

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WHEREAS, any members of the House of Representatives or the Senate of the Legislature of the State of Idaho who choose to vote "Nay" on this concurrent resolution are "FREAKIN' IDIOTS!" and run the risk of having the "Worst Day of Their Lives!"

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If you are a fan of the movie you have to read the bill. The funny thing is that the bill's existence proves that there really isn't anything to do in Idaho. When I think of how this bill came about, I imagine a group of state senators getting drunk one night over poker, quoting from the movie. Whatever intern had got the job of writing the bill down is freakin' lucky, 'cause it is flippin' sweet!

Monday, August 01, 2005

Six degrees of lyrical separation

I stumbled onto a cool site that takes six degrees of separation to a different level, applying it to songs and artists who are linked by cover songs — those songs that are sung by an artist who didn't originally write it.

The Covers Project uses a nice drop down interface to allow you to see where you have been and where you are going in their extensive listing of cover songs. For example: Pearl Jam covered "Rockin' in the Free World" by Neil Young, who covered "Imagine" by John Lennon, who covered "I'm a Man" by Bo Diddley, and so it goes on...

There are a number of icons that link to both iTunes and Amazon for song purchasing. They get in the way of the readability of the entire thing, but I suppose you have to pay for bandwidth somehow. There also isn't an easy way to create a chain without remembering it all yourself. (At the time I discovered the site, they seemed to be making updates, so this may be available when you read this post.)

Overall, I think it is an interesting idea. Take a ride on the cover song train and see where you end up.

The sources of creativity


I heard an outstanding bit of observation today from John Leinhard at the University of Houston. He produces a verbal essay for NPR stations called Engines of Our Ingenuity.

In today's piece, he comments on creativity, and the ways in which we as humans are creative. I thought it was worth sharing. You can read his statements below, or click over to this own site to read or listen. (You'll need to allow his words to soak in, as opposed to the site design.)

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Today, a security guard explains creativity to me. The University of Houston's College of Engineering presents this series about the machines that make our civilization run, and the people whose ingenuity created them.
Last night at the art museum, my mind gradually slowed from its work-a-day churn, into reflection. Finally, in the exhibit of modern Texas art, I asked a security guard, "With all the hours you spend in here, which is your favorite work?"

"Sir," he said, "as a matter of policy, we don't express opinions on the art." He paused, then smiled. "I'm going to break that rule and tell you. Actually, I like all the art."

I laughed at his self-deprecatory, fool-nobody, diplomacy. He'd put me in the right frame to enjoy the good humor of modern art. When we passed again, I said, "Someday, you'll be president of the United States." He pulled a long face: "Now why should you have such a low opinion of me!" Then he said,

Let me give you the real answer to your question. The finest art in this room isn't hanging on the walls. It's the people who come through here. People aren't the same in here as they are walking through a supermarket, you know. They're different. They're open. They come here to be changed.
I looked at the man with astonishment. Of course! That's what art is all about. He'd gone right to the center of it.

Long ago, Louis Pasteur talked about creativity. He said, "Chance favors only the prepared mind." But while Pasteur offered no guidance as to how we prepare our minds, that security guard did. People don't move through museums the way they move through supermarkets. Art is more than just a product served up for our pleasure. Art is a trigger to our imaginations.

We all live in need of ideas. We all have problems to solve. At some point, most of us realize that, when our problems need creative solutions, they cannot be attacked with purely methodical tools. Method takes us down familiar roads. Creativity means seeing the shrubbery-shrouded side roads that we ignore by habit.

The hardest thing in the world is to leave the highway and float above the land. Music, theater, sculpture -- they all cut us loose from the road of method and common sense.

The so-called creative leap isn't a leap in the dark -- without antecedents or stimulus. Rather, it happens when we find a liminal state, on the very edge of awareness, where ideas arrive without order or hierarchy. In that mental world, cowpaths are as important as freeways. And one way to find that creative state is to give ourselves over to art.

Inside the museum, we lay aside our shopping lists of needs to be met. Art serves us when we leave our supermarket lives to wander the woods, eating the unexpected nuts, berries, and wild fruit.

That's what that security guard saw. He saw people without shopping lists, ready to be taken into alien spaces. He'd seen you and me, ready to be led onto byroads of thought, ready to wander into places we didn't know were there -- and so very close at hand.

I'm John Lienhard, at the University of Houston, where we're interested in the way inventive minds work.

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(Photo Credit: John Leinhard)